It's been a pretty shit day. Two hours sleep after the chucking-out, a really poor French test on the phone (for a French course), and a couple of waffles with jam. This is what happens when you have relations with men you do not value you. And really it should have ended there but he just keeps sending me messages. I think he is not so much thick-skinned as possibly just thick.
I unfriended him on Facebook so he sent me another friend request. He sent me a long self-justifying email. He phoned me, several times. I did not answer. He invited me out to karaoke tonight, despite the fact I'd thrown him out in the middle of the night. I mean. WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCKING FUCK? And this is someone who does not want me to be his girlfriend, and whom I've quite categorically told I will not be his fuck buddy or mate.
I am baffled by people. But then he is a Scientologist, which probably takes WTF to whole new levels of fuckery. If I believed in God I would think he is having a right fucking laugh at the moment.
Holy shit, Jane - I think you are well rid of this one..almost. Keep that door double-locked and hope he gets the message very soon. Take care. Ax
ReplyDeleteOh it's ok, I think I could take him one-handed.
ReplyDeleteGlad to hear that Jane. He really does sound like a crazy man. I dont think you should feel down about this episode..just very happy to have found out what an idiot he is, so soon. J
ReplyDeleteA VERY lucky escape I'd say!
ReplyDeleteYes. You do sort of wonder if it is you though, don't you? I mean one. I mean me. Did I not pick up on something? No. On our first date I'm pretty sure he said he was looking seriously for The One or something like that. Not The One Night.
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ReplyDeleteIt's called a lie Jane, one employed by lowlife twats whose sole purpose is to get their end away. What happened is absolutely no reflection on you. Men like this guy are manipulating bastards who genuinely believe they're doing nothing wrong - hence his continued attempts to contact you.
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Yes, I suppose you are right. I think I must be a little naive.
ReplyDeleteNo, not naive, trusting. Trust is a good quality, you have to take a chance sometimes, after all you can't go through life expecting people to let you down otherwise you might just miss out on The One.
ReplyDeleteIt’s easy to get taken in by guys like this, they are very good at what they do; Christ knows I've met a few! I like to think they will wind up sad and lonely, without a true friend in the world, when they finally run out of people to deceive. :-)
You are very restrained. I would have been tempted to kick him in the unmentionables before throwing him out.
ReplyDeleteI'm with Maud on this one..can't add anything further. Except perhaps to agree with BacktoBodrum.
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